- Run an ice cube over his nipples, penis, balls, and lips.
- Taking some warm chocolate sauce in your mouth, start giving him a blow job (just make sure it’s not so hot that it scalds him). Here are 31 blow job techniques you can use to light his fire.
- Try giving him a blow job with some ice water or even chilled champagne in your mouth. Here are another 19 powerful blow job tips that will have him crying out in pleasure.
Next, you can play a simple question & answers game and give him rewards or punishments depending on his answers. Check out suggested punishments and rewards later on in the article.
Lead Him Somewhere New
You can also lead your man somewhere else when you blindfold him. This can be somewhere boring like to another bedroom or the living room. But if you want to be kinkier, you could also bring him to the basement, garage or even outside if public play is your thing.
The other benefit of blindfolding your man is that you may find there is less pressure on you. If you often feel pressure to put on a performance for your man or feel self-conscious about yourself during sex, then making him wear a blindfold can help alleviate this pressure.
Using your body on his body – This is the easiest as it doesn’t require any equipment. You can use your hands to pin down your man’s hands above him, behind his back or to his side. You can also use your body weight to restrain him by lying on top of him.
Handcuffs, rope, ties & bondage equipment – The more obvious choice when restraining your man is by using something like a pair of handcuffs or rope or specialty bondage equipment to restrain him. Here are a few examples that hopefully spark even more ideas for you:
- Handcuff him behind his back.
- Tie his wrists to the bedposts and his ankles too.
- Tie his ankles to a spreader bar to leave him feeling vulnerable.
- Put him in a straightjacket to let him know who’s boss.
- Hogtie him to completely humiliate him.
- You can even restrain his penis using a chastity device.
Usually, it’s the submissive being restrained, but this isn’t always the case. Unsure who should be tied up? Take this quiz to discover if you’re more dominant or submissive.
The first thing you should know about this kinky idea is that some find spanking incredibly hot and arousing, while others don’t enjoy it at all. You can literally make your man cry with pleasure and pain at the same time. It all comes down bdsmdate to personal preference. With that in mind, I hope you’ll at least experiment with it.
If your man is on top of you during sex or in any position where it’s easy to reach his bum, then you can try spanking him. Just use an open palm and if you like you can lightly grab him or rub him after you’ve hit him. The key is experimenting and seeing what he responds to best.
If you are playing a kinky sex game with your man, and he fails a task or if you’ve caught him doing something naughty/forbidden, then you may want to punish him with a spanking. You can tell him to get on all fours or to remain standing and place his hands against the wall or even to lean over a table.